Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Blog Post #22: In Memorium

Dear Family and Friends,

You may be surprised to hear that the title of this week's post is not referring directly to the mass murders that occurred nearly 600 Tuesday's ago. I did, in my own quiet way, honor the memories of the thousands of innocent men, women, and children who were killed that day and in the subsequent conflicts, but I feel that sharing any more of my feelings on that subject may breach the guidelines set forth in the Missionary Handbook that counsels me not to discuss politics.

The main topic of this week's letter to those I love is the 5th of the 5 Blessings. They are Health, Prosperity, Good Fortune, Happy Children, and Natural Death.

This week I was invited to attend a memorial service for Brother Lee, a member of our Ward that had been ill and unable to attend Church for a very long time. Missionaries are not often invited to go to such ceremonies, so Elder Marrott and I were deeply touched by the invitation extended to us by the deceased's niece. It was a very peaceful service in which Brother Lee was remembered, the goodness of God and the Plan of Salvation was extolled, and his mortal remains were taken to be protected until he is called up by the Father on Resurrection Morning.

The thing that makes Natural Death the 5th blessing, in my way of seeing things, is that it gives one time to reconcile oneself with God. As a person ages they begin to understand that their hour soon will come to lay down their bodies and prepare to meet their Lord. I'm sure this gives the aged time to ponder their lives and the chance to correct any mistakes they may have made.

Unfortunately, as we were all reminded as we mourned on Tuesday, not everyone is given the 5th Blessing. If you were to receive it, would you be ready to meet the Father? Are you confident that you would receive Eternal Life? I'm sure that, with the decades of quiet introspection that usually proceed natural death, all of us would be.

But what if you didn't pass in your sleep in the sunset of your life? If you were called back to the Judgement Seat tomorrow, would you be ready? My purpose is not to frighten you into action, but to cause you to search your soul and, if needed, correct yourself. Let me quote a book I've been reading recently to help me clarify my words;

Alma 34:34 "Ye cannot say, when ye are brought to that awful crisis, that I will repent, that I will return to my God. Nay, ye cannot say this; for that same spirit which doth possess your bodies at the time that ye go out of this life, that same spirit will have power to possess your body in that eternal world."

The message here is very direct and simple to me; it doesn't matter what you outwardly do, but what you inwardly are. "That same spirit" means YOU. If you have no desire to follow God's commandments now, you won't in the next stage of your progression. If you "set at naught the things of God" now, you will not be given more of the things of God in the Post-Mortal world. To make it a bit more clear; if you cannot abide by the laws and statutes of America, then you cannot be a happy and free American. If you regard the laws as a cage that needs breaking out of, you will be punished and your liberty will be taken away. If you view these laws as a scaffold to help you grow upwards to fulfill your full potential, you will receive happiness, freedom, and be allowed to continue doing the things that make you happy.

If you cannot follow the commandments of God, you cannot dwell with Him. If you view the Word of Wisdom, the Laws of Chastity, of Tithing, of the Sabbath as a cage, then you will begin to grow bitter as you create an imagined prison around yourself. If you view these commandments as a scaffolding that ensures you are building yourself safely upward, and not dangerously outwards, you will feel yourself being added upon. I know that it's not easy to accept at first that the Gospel is a scaffold, not a cage, but I know that as you use the doctrines and principles taught to govern your life and guide each choice, our Heavenly Father will bless you with His Son's care and the Holy Spirit's guidance.

I hope to be ready to meet my Father when the time comes, and that each of you can also be so ready. I love you all, and I know that this is the Lord's Restored Gospel. Love it, live it, and you will receive true and unending joy and happiness.

Love,
Elder O'Gara

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